Jid karo aur duniya badlo

Yesterday night i was thinking something about highly successful people. I was thinking about the differences between successful people and unsuccessful people. I gave this thing a lot of thought and finally i came out with just two points of differentiation between successful people and unsuccessful people. The results which I came out with were very surprising. They were very simple things which all of us can easily apply but we generally never give them a thought or just ignore them. The results were:
1) Courage to say “No” : This is one of the habit which we generally lack unknowingly. We in the pursuit of pleasing everyone generally don’t say “NO” to anybody. Many a times you might have came out with the situation in which your closed ones must have demanded of something, which you don’t want to do. But since he/she is your closed one, you cannot say “no”. You fear that others might get a bad feel about you or may even feel bad. But this is a total wrong myth. If you say “NO” to a justified thing then it is always right. If others are sensible enough they will understand your view point easily and won’t feel bad. This habit of saying “NO” at justifiable point of time always helps and also brings you a lot of reputation. It makes other feel as if you are a straightforward and a responsible person.
2) The other effective habit is taking responsibility and ownership of things, you are liable to genuinely. The habit of taking responsibility and ownership always helps a person to be more sincere and determined towards his/her goal. We generally lack this habit. The advertisement of Future group with Dhoni also says the same, “Jid Karo aur duniya badlo”. Apart from our workplace, we need to be responsible about the things happening in our surroundings too. Then only we can change the world. Our country is in deep need of such kind of people. Then only we can change our country.
I would like to quote an example of a railway engineer at Jalore, a small district in western Rajasthan. There is a sewerage project going on in the main city. Like all other government projects it is also going on very slowly. In the outskirts of the city, nearby railway colony as the sewer lines were being laid, a railway engineer was passing by them. He saw that the sewage pipes were cracked. Not just one or two all of the pipes were having cracks. He immediately complained this to the government contractor around. At first the contractor refused to hear anything regard this but when this gentleman complained this to the local people, a lot of people got assembled. Then the contractor felt pressurized and he accepted that the pipes were cracked and he immediately replaced them. The people also checked the piped laid down earlier and found that they too were crack. They asked the contractor to replace those crack pipes and finally he did. Thus a simple citizen like you and me, by showing a bit of responsibility towards society and surroundings can also bring a lot of change.
Thus, many a times by taking the responsibility of the things, we can achieve great heights.

So, for becoming a successful person we need these two qualities like other qualities of a successful person. These small things can bring a lot of change.
KABHI SOCHA HAI???